Colloquial Ridiculocity Transmutes Intelligence To Imbecilic Nonsense

WARNING: The following post contains material that some may find “old-fashioned”, “out-of-date”, and even “old-fart”ish.  Proceed at your own caution.

To be sure, I am not cool.  I’ve known this all my life.  Even when I tried to be cool when I was a teen-ager, I wasn’t able to pull it off.  In fact, I remember many times as a fourth and fifth grader that during recess, I was hanging out with the teacher or recess monitor and talking with them because that way I could have a more mature conversation.  I know, I’m totally uncool.

It should be no surprise, then, when I read a post on Linked-In that purported to be a guide to Baby-boomers and Gen-X’ers on how to communicate with Millennials, I found the post to be a complete pile of excrement.

The gist of the post was to take typical colloquialisms that Baby-boomers say and interpret first how Millennials hear them and then suggest a better way of saying it.  Can I be the first one to say, “this is ridiculous!”.  My first irritation is a minor one: “what-evs”?  Seriously, I’m supposed to accept an adult using “what-evs” in their normal speech?  What is this? Junior High?  To adults who say this without a hint of irony: grow up and stop being lazy. Complete your words before you force the English language to sound French.

Here is my problem with this kind of trash parading around as business advice: not all people of a generation are the same.  “WHAT!” Yes, that is right, people are individuals.

I know this goes against everything we learn from school, work, and politics.  We a conditioned and trained by the society we live in to view people in groups.  After all, we look at the 2012 presidential election as the 47% versus everyone else including “single women”, “blacks”, “hispanics”, etc.  I put quotes, because that is how the news media presented those groups to us.  At school, we had the jocks, geeks, nerds, cowboys, goths, freaks, preppies, and any number of other groups we were identified with. In my profession of architecture, when I worked in a large firm, people were grouped and you found yourself pidgeon-holed into a particular role based on what other people thought of you.

And this grouping by generations doesn’t even make sense.  Apparently, because I was born in 1979, I am not as cool and hip as someone in born a few months later because I am Gen-X and they are a Millennial.  But it is the same ridiculous logic that says because you are born between the 20th of one month and the 20th of the next month, you will have all the same likes, tendencies, inhibitions, emotions, etc. as all the other people born in that same 30 day period of the Gregorian calendar.

And yet, this grouping continues unabated.  Nobody is ever judged by the content of their character because too many people just see a black man as a black man and a white man as a white man.  They don’t bother to look deeper than the skin color, or in the case of generational discrimination: the grayness of their hair.

But am I even being true?  I’m saying “nobody” and “they” to refer to large groups of people.

We need to stop and get to know people.  It is all about knowing the individual.  Groups are imaginary.  They are arbitrary.  In every group, there are exceptions.  Why?  Because they are not groups, they are a bunch of individuals each with their own life, story, personality, etc.



I’m Not Eating at Chili’s Anytime Soon . . .

Look, I’m not saying I won’t eat there.  I’m just saying, I’m a little concerned that I might get shot there by a crazed gunman.  You might be thinking, “Yeah, but didn’t they just ban guns at Chili’s restaurants?”  Why, yes, they did.  That’s why I’m concerned.

You see, the problem with banning guns at a restaurant is not that law-abiding citizens when flaunt their second amendment right and carry open anyways.  No, instead, it’s just this inconvenient truth I’ve discovered throughout my life is that criminals don’t obey the law.  What? Yes, that’s right, someone willing to commit murder are not likely to care that a particular business establishment has requested that their customers come unarmed.  In fact, for the criminally insane who have planned a spectacular massacre of innocents to be followed shortly by their own bloody suicide, they would probably view a “gun-free” zone as an advantage.

Let’s look at it this way: when you get to the greeter’s podium at Chili’s, are they really going to take you through a metal detector with an armed officer to frisk you to make sure you are actually unarmed?  Not likely.  It would be ridiculous for them to do so.  Thus, the only people who will be unarmed will be those honest and upright enough to obey the rules.  For argument’s sake, let’s call these people: law-abiding citizens. The armed gunman will then be, who?  Oh yes, the crazy mass murderer.

And why would I say these horrible things?  Oh yeah, because I lived through the mass killing at Virginia Tech back in 2007.  That campus is still to this day a “gun-free” campus.  That “gun-free” status did not stop the killer.

The mistaken logic of all these well-intentioned business owners and government leaders who advocate for these gun-free zones is simply that: criminals by definition do not obey the law.

So, that is why for a while, I will not be eating at Chili’s.


These Americans Need Our Help

David Clayton:

When I first heard about this family in crisis, it was through Christians around the world should be up in arms to demand action on the family’s behalf. No one should be imprisoned for their belief, and especially not a pregnant mother. The Sudanese government has proven time and time again that it is not a legitimate government, but a despotic terrorist regime.

Originally posted on nebraskaenergyobserver:

Meriam Ibrahim

You know that back in 1802, for the first time in American history, Congress granted the president (Jefferson, by name) the authority to use military force. That force was to be used against the Barbary pirates, who were holding American sailors in slavery. In the course of that action the USS Philadelphia went aground in Tripoli harbor and Lieutenant Stephen Decatur and a detachment of Marines from the Intrepid managed to board and burn her. It was an amazing enough exploit for Lord Nelson to comment that it was “the most bold and daring act of the age.”.

This was also the war in which the first of the epic American marches took place. That happened when 1st Lieutenant of Marines Presley O’Bannon, and former US Consul William Eaton led a force of 8 Marines and five hundred mercenaries from Alexandria, Egypt to Derna, where they assaulted and…

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It’s Hard To Blog When You’re Busy

For several months, I have neglected writing on this blog.  The reason: I have just been too busy.  But then, I got to thinking.  For almost all things we either make time or we don’t.  If it is something that is important to us, we make time for it.

Which begs the question: what do we spend our time on most?  The question is important because it indicates where our priorities are.  Are we too busy to do something important because what we value more is that latest episode of a show on TV or keeping up on the latest memes on Facebook?

It may not be the most important thing for me to write this blog.  I’ll admit, I gain no monetary value out of doing this and I doubt anybody actually reads it.  So why do I do this?  It is because I love writing.  The vast majority of my time is spent doing the things necessary for making a living in my chosen profession of architecture.  But as much as I enjoy architecture, I also enjoy many other activities that bring me joy and satisfaction.

So if it is important, then why have I neglected it?  At first, I was overwhelmed by the increased project load that hit me at the beginning of the year.  But slowly, it became a matter of forgetting.  I think we all do this in many parts of our lives.  Things that we value fall by the wayside because we think, “oh, not today, I’m too busy or tired.” The next time we think to do that important thing, it is easier and easier to say, “next time.”

The point of this post is to say, “enough with the next times, I’m doing something today.”


Why I Don’t Get My Dental Work Done By My Accountant . . .

It’s not that my accountant is not a smart guy.  I mean, he is.  In fact, he seems quite capable at doing many things.  Yet, he’s not a dentist.  He doesn’t have the training or the practice to do dental work.  

Now, you are probably thinking, “duh!”  And yet, we ask ignorant people to make very important decisions for us all the time.  Okay, and now you are thinking, “what?!”

Before I get myself in too much trouble, let me preface what I’m about to say with, this is a thought piece meant to provoke thought.  

So the ignorant making important decisions for us all the time?  Try: voting.  Yes, voting, the routine we go through every four years (it’s actually every year, but the ignorant don’t know that) where we all pretend that it is some sort of virtue to make sure everybody gets out to vote.

Here is my question: when you vote, do you know the names on the ballots.  Do you know who those people are and what they believe.  Do you know what positions they are running for and what the “county auditor” even does?  Or do you go into the booth and as your eyes glaze over with confusion, you just choose the first name in the list or maybe you go for the name that is the most fun to say as a tongue twister?

Yes, we are all ignorant voters.  I confess, I have been there many times voting under the influence of ignorance.  And when I was younger, I would simply vote on every issue, regardless of my knowledge on the issue.

But I know I’m not the only one.  It changed for me a few years ago when the thought crossed my mind– if I don’t know, then why should I distort the vote of those who may know.  So, I began abstaining from those portions of the ballot and I would stick to the issues and candidates I did know something about.

Too often, we get caught up in “get out the vote” campaigns and euphemistically think that if we just had more voter participation, our country wouldn’t be in the mess it is in. NO.  What we need is for each individual to stop paying so much attention to Justin Bieber, and start paying more attention to the issues– yes, study them, research the candidates.  Before we go to the polls, we should know who and what is on the ballot and we should have at least a somewhat informed opinion of those ballot items.

And in that way, I can finally get my accountant to give me the cavity filling I need . . . oh wait, that’s still a bad idea.

Progressivism is anti-progress…

It is amazing what a little positive spin can do for an ideology. Take progressivism, for example. It is simply a branch of Marxist thought meant to progressively take a capitalist society and feed it little bits of socialism at a time to eventually convert it into a communist one. It is like the frog in the boiling water. Put it in the boiling pot immediately, it jumps out. Put the frog in cool water and slowly turn up the heat, the frog with be boiled to death.
The slow process of converting the classically liberal United States of America into a communist country began over one hundred years ago. Progressives have had a long term plan to get Americans hooked on socialism. The process involved adding a program here, a program there. Get people to accept government help, eventually they would become dependent. As the people become more dependent, they begin to see the government not as a guaranteur of rights, but a guaranteur of well-being.
But, why is that so bad? Why shouldn’t the government make sure everyone has a roof overhead, or a chicken in the pot, or clothes on their backs? Aren’t these fundamental needs? Where is the caring heart of those who would argue that government should limit welfare programs?
The answer is in the one thing Progressives can never provide: individual progress. If you have children, you understand this implicitly. At some point, when the baby is now a toddler, you have to wean them of the mother’s milk and diapers. Later in life, you have to make them suffer the inevitable scrapes and bruises as they learn to ride a bike. The process of raising children is a process of taking away the support because you are attempting as a parent to teach them self-reliance. Without this process, the child would actually be prevented from the progress they need to self-actualize.
In the case of politicians who promote the ever expanding welfare state, they are essentially saying that it is okay for a person to be permanently dependent on the mother’s milk of government money. They are telling us not that the person should just have a helping hand, but that they should have a couch to lay back on while others provide for them.
Socialism, communism, and progressivism all have this similar trait: they attempt to remove the pain of life from people. They attempt to create a safe environment where no one fails. But when no one can fail, the opposite is also true, no one can succeed.
It has often crossed my mind that as I work hard, I recognize that my last year’s income is actually less than the average annual benefits paid out by the federal government to a typical welfare recipient. I used to get angry at this fact. I used to think, “how is this fair?” But lately, I have become more and more convinced that it is those welfare recipients who are being treated unfairly. They are being held back from the potential for personal growth and self-actualization that I am free to pursue because I have chosen to avoid receiving any government help (healthcare not withstanding as I am being forced to use government assistance thanks to the ACA, but that is a story for another post).
The white-washing that Marxism benefits from through the guise of progressivism is evident in the name they chose over 100 years ago: Progressives. They understood that progress is a universally admired word. We all want progress because we all wasn’t things to get better. But truthfully, the progress we need is not found in stunting the spiritual growth of the citizenry. It is found in promoting freedom, especially the freedom to fail. Because the opposite is also true. Having the freedom to fail grants us the freedom to succeed.

Getting Old . . .

Yeah, I know. I’m still very young. I try to remind myself of that all the time. It’s just that . . . last week, I turned 35 years old. Today, my oldest daughter registered for junior high. So, I was sitting there with her and my wife in the cafeteria of the junior high, listening to the school principal give the spiel about the classes and everything, and of course, I drift off into my own personal thoughts. All I could think was, “It feels like just yesterday I was in the 7th grade. How am I old enough to have a kid in junior high?”
On the professional front, I just completed the design of an addition to a nursing home. Learning more about the aging process only makes it more real . . . there is no escape to aging. Granted, I have a long life still ahead of me. Hopefully 60-70 more years or more. But aging is an amazing thing. As a child, the world moves slowly and you can’t wait to grow up. Then, in your young adult years, you think you have plenty of time to worry about what to do so for now you just want to have fun. But over time, that time seems to slip faster and faster. Days start to go by in a flash and months seem to pass quicker than you can count. You start to feel like time is running out– like you may not have enough time on this earth to accomplish your goals and dreams.
This is why I try to remind myself that I am young. I can still run a marathon. I can still hike mountains. I can still accomplish my dreams. But… only if I’m working towards those dreams each and every day.